Comments on: Some people wait a lifetime http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/daily-life/some-people-wait-a-lifetime/ Design of a minimalist, content of a maximalist Sat, 13 Mar 2010 09:04:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Latrina http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/daily-life/some-people-wait-a-lifetime/#comment-65064 Latrina Fri, 10 Apr 2009 15:38:13 +0000 http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/?p=3423#comment-65064 My long comments amaze me even, haha. I'm always showing Chris our lengthy comments. Especially when they are back to back like your recent posts. I don't normally leave such lengthy comments so you should feel special! I'm sure it's because when I read your blog, it sparks a lot of thought.. and plus, I'm a rambler so. :) Oh. Don't get me started on the whole losing-comments-thing, it has happened to me soo many times! I now normally copy-and-paste my lengthy comments just in case. hehe I think some people just don't like others to get into their business so they get all fussy when you try to help. Luckily, I don't know many people like that.. but it is very disappointing when you feel like you could lend a hand or some advice but the recipient would rather you not. :| Oh man, my Psychology class (I took two actually) did require a lot of work, reading, studying, etc. But I enjoyed it so much! I still have my class book and even read it sometimes, lol. I'm weird. :) As for all the theories and experiments to know.. I'm sure I have completely forgotten them all by now, haha. A very interesting class, none the less! And thank youuu. I can't believe you liked my little snapshots on my sidebar. I feel bad 'cause I rarely ever updated it! haha, I get too lazy sometimes. It's a lot of work keeping up a website.. with a blog, library, snapshots, and now a photoblog! But I'm going to stick with the photoblog, with out a doubt. It's so much fun! I am a very nostalgic person so being able to look back at this virtual photo album type thing.. is pretty cool. :) I'm glad you liked it! Now this means it's your turn to share more photos! :D <abbr><em>Check out Latrina’s latest blog post » <a href="http://www.blistersinmay.org/2009/04/08/introducing-photoblog/" rel="nofollow">Introducing photoblog!</a></em></abbr> My long comments amaze me even, haha. I’m always showing Chris our lengthy comments. Especially when they are back to back like your recent posts. I don’t normally leave such lengthy comments so you should feel special! I’m sure it’s because when I read your blog, it sparks a lot of thought.. and plus, I’m a rambler so. :)

Oh. Don’t get me started on the whole losing-comments-thing, it has happened to me soo many times! I now normally copy-and-paste my lengthy comments just in case. hehe

I think some people just don’t like others to get into their business so they get all fussy when you try to help. Luckily, I don’t know many people like that.. but it is very disappointing when you feel like you could lend a hand or some advice but the recipient would rather you not. :|

Oh man, my Psychology class (I took two actually) did require a lot of work, reading, studying, etc. But I enjoyed it so much! I still have my class book and even read it sometimes, lol. I’m weird. :) As for all the theories and experiments to know.. I’m sure I have completely forgotten them all by now, haha. A very interesting class, none the less!

And thank youuu. I can’t believe you liked my little snapshots on my sidebar. I feel bad ’cause I rarely ever updated it! haha, I get too lazy sometimes. It’s a lot of work keeping up a website.. with a blog, library, snapshots, and now a photoblog! But I’m going to stick with the photoblog, with out a doubt. It’s so much fun! I am a very nostalgic person so being able to look back at this virtual photo album type thing.. is pretty cool. :) I’m glad you liked it! Now this means it’s your turn to share more photos! :D

Check out Latrina’s latest blog post » Introducing photoblog!

]]> By: teddY http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/daily-life/some-people-wait-a-lifetime/#comment-65063 teddY Fri, 10 Apr 2009 06:50:17 +0000 http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/?p=3423#comment-65063 Wow, that's a very long comment, Latrina! Thank you so much for taking the time type everything out. When I read that people leave long comments, it worries me a little because I always imagined the possibility of hitting a back or reload button which will wipe out all the stuff. I've done it too many times and tried to even use Ctrl+Z to salvage (which of course, doesn't work at all). Haha! I'm very glad to know that you've found the love of your life - congratulations to you both! I couldn't say how happy I am to know that you're engaged around a month ago. It's always nice to know that people have finally found someone they believe can spend the rest of the life with, someone they believe will complete themselves. Awww! Actually, I have no idea how you found my site. I'm very surprised at your comments because first-time visitors don't leave long comments like you - they usually say hi-nice-site-bye and then wait for me to take further actions (like drop by their blog). I'm really, realy honoured that you give a lot of thought and made a conscious effort in writing comments - they're very encouraging and heartening to read. They brighten up my day. Thank you! I hate to hurt people's feelings too - I've been through all the emotional pain of being avoided, hated and utilized that I don't think people deserve to go through what I had done. I try to diffuse the situation, but usually confrontations will escalate into some big hoohaa, completely out of hand. How can people get fussy when you try to help? It's absurd. Instead, they should actually thank you for trying to help - it's so hard to find true friends that are genuinely concerned for each other nowadays, and they should appreciate your help. I'm taking psychology this semester and I'm totally in love with it too! Although it's not easy (we have gazillion theories and experiments to know as well as the back of our hands), the real world application is just too true. p/s: Congratulations for your new photoblog! I can't wait to see your photos in high resolution. You've been displaying really nice photos on your blog sidebar, but I couldn't see them in a larger resolution. Now I can admire your photos with awe, yay! Wow, that’s a very long comment, Latrina! Thank you so much for taking the time type everything out. When I read that people leave long comments, it worries me a little because I always imagined the possibility of hitting a back or reload button which will wipe out all the stuff. I’ve done it too many times and tried to even use Ctrl+Z to salvage (which of course, doesn’t work at all). Haha!

I’m very glad to know that you’ve found the love of your life – congratulations to you both! I couldn’t say how happy I am to know that you’re engaged around a month ago. It’s always nice to know that people have finally found someone they believe can spend the rest of the life with, someone they believe will complete themselves. Awww!

Actually, I have no idea how you found my site. I’m very surprised at your comments because first-time visitors don’t leave long comments like you – they usually say hi-nice-site-bye and then wait for me to take further actions (like drop by their blog). I’m really, realy honoured that you give a lot of thought and made a conscious effort in writing comments – they’re very encouraging and heartening to read. They brighten up my day. Thank you!

I hate to hurt people’s feelings too – I’ve been through all the emotional pain of being avoided, hated and utilized that I don’t think people deserve to go through what I had done. I try to diffuse the situation, but usually confrontations will escalate into some big hoohaa, completely out of hand.

How can people get fussy when you try to help? It’s absurd. Instead, they should actually thank you for trying to help – it’s so hard to find true friends that are genuinely concerned for each other nowadays, and they should appreciate your help.

I’m taking psychology this semester and I’m totally in love with it too! Although it’s not easy (we have gazillion theories and experiments to know as well as the back of our hands), the real world application is just too true.

p/s: Congratulations for your new photoblog! I can’t wait to see your photos in high resolution. You’ve been displaying really nice photos on your blog sidebar, but I couldn’t see them in a larger resolution. Now I can admire your photos with awe, yay!

]]> By: teddY http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/daily-life/some-people-wait-a-lifetime/#comment-65062 teddY Fri, 10 Apr 2009 06:37:31 +0000 http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/?p=3423#comment-65062 Thank you! The intermitten rains are giving me a huge headache because my laundry simply refuses to dry, hah! I'm actually kind of envious of you because you don't have to sit for exams, heh. Thank you! The intermitten rains are giving me a huge headache because my laundry simply refuses to dry, hah! I’m actually kind of envious of you because you don’t have to sit for exams, heh.

]]> By: teddY http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/daily-life/some-people-wait-a-lifetime/#comment-65061 teddY Fri, 10 Apr 2009 06:36:16 +0000 http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/?p=3423#comment-65061 Thanks for the recommendation! I will take short breaks in between my study sessions to make sure that my eyes are getting enough rest, and to refresh my brain as well. Too bad we don't have seasons over here! I heard that it's finally getting warmer in Boston. I hope everything is going well for you. Thanks for the best wishes! Thanks for the recommendation! I will take short breaks in between my study sessions to make sure that my eyes are getting enough rest, and to refresh my brain as well. Too bad we don’t have seasons over here!

I heard that it’s finally getting warmer in Boston. I hope everything is going well for you. Thanks for the best wishes!

]]> By: teddY http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/daily-life/some-people-wait-a-lifetime/#comment-65060 teddY Fri, 10 Apr 2009 06:34:40 +0000 http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/?p=3423#comment-65060 Being caught in a confrontation feels like a train running across your whole body. It's like being caught in between a mouth fight, and sometimes, to make things worse, arguing parties will ask you to pick sides and berate you if you choose to sit on the fence. I always hated that kind of situation because I don't want to side anyone of them for fear of ruining their friendship (and mine as well). It's sad that people have to bring conflicts to the big stage to justify the fight/argument. When I'm in a confrontation with a stranger, I wouldn't budge if I'm not wrong. But when it comes to friend, the whole moral obligation thing, the friendship stuff start to weigh down on me. There's nothing wrong about talking too much, Aisyah. You think a lot before talking, so that shouldn't be a problem at all :) Being caught in a confrontation feels like a train running across your whole body. It’s like being caught in between a mouth fight, and sometimes, to make things worse, arguing parties will ask you to pick sides and berate you if you choose to sit on the fence. I always hated that kind of situation because I don’t want to side anyone of them for fear of ruining their friendship (and mine as well). It’s sad that people have to bring conflicts to the big stage to justify the fight/argument.

When I’m in a confrontation with a stranger, I wouldn’t budge if I’m not wrong. But when it comes to friend, the whole moral obligation thing, the friendship stuff start to weigh down on me.

There’s nothing wrong about talking too much, Aisyah. You think a lot before talking, so that shouldn’t be a problem at all :)

]]> By: teddY http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/daily-life/some-people-wait-a-lifetime/#comment-65059 teddY Fri, 10 Apr 2009 06:31:00 +0000 http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/?p=3423#comment-65059 Thanks! Birthdays are importance milestones of a person's life, so yeap, I'll be more than happy to give my birthday wishes to the birthday boy/girl. Nap definitely kills the night sleep for me! It becomes a vicious cycle - I don't get enough sleep at night, so I tend to oversleep during nap time (sometimes up to 6 hours). I sleep so much during naptime that it becomes the real sleeping time and shortens the night time sleep into a mere nap (like 2 hours every night?). So yep, I'll have to break the cycle asap! Thanks! Birthdays are importance milestones of a person’s life, so yeap, I’ll be more than happy to give my birthday wishes to the birthday boy/girl.

Nap definitely kills the night sleep for me! It becomes a vicious cycle – I don’t get enough sleep at night, so I tend to oversleep during nap time (sometimes up to 6 hours). I sleep so much during naptime that it becomes the real sleeping time and shortens the night time sleep into a mere nap (like 2 hours every night?). So yep, I’ll have to break the cycle asap!

]]> By: teddY http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/daily-life/some-people-wait-a-lifetime/#comment-65058 teddY Fri, 10 Apr 2009 06:26:38 +0000 http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/?p=3423#comment-65058 Thanks for the wishes! Confrontations are unavoidable - nobody is made the same and there will definitely be times when there is a conflict of interest, ideas or opinions. What scares me is that people bring all the emotion out when such clashes happen, dragging in people who are probably unrelated and picking old scabs. But well, it teaches me a lot on the importance of anger management, heh. Thanks for the wishes! Confrontations are unavoidable – nobody is made the same and there will definitely be times when there is a conflict of interest, ideas or opinions. What scares me is that people bring all the emotion out when such clashes happen, dragging in people who are probably unrelated and picking old scabs. But well, it teaches me a lot on the importance of anger management, heh.

]]> By: teddY http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/daily-life/some-people-wait-a-lifetime/#comment-65057 teddY Fri, 10 Apr 2009 06:24:20 +0000 http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/?p=3423#comment-65057 I will be trying very hard to ditch that habit by the weekend, heheh. Night owl habits are not good, they're taking a toll on me but I just couldn't pull myself away. Pretty insane. Thanks for the best wishes! I will be trying very hard to ditch that habit by the weekend, heheh. Night owl habits are not good, they’re taking a toll on me but I just couldn’t pull myself away. Pretty insane.

Thanks for the best wishes!

]]> By: Destiny http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/daily-life/some-people-wait-a-lifetime/#comment-65050 Destiny Thu, 09 Apr 2009 17:07:32 +0000 http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/?p=3423#comment-65050 Best of luck for your exams!! I know the pain of that time... you're so sweet to be giving your birthday wishes to your friend!! It's always nice to see that people still care greatly for each other :) It's the naps that kills your night if you're trying to sleep at night... but I hope your pattern will be back to normal soon! <abbr><em>Check out Destiny’s latest blog post » <a href="http://www.everdestiny.com/everday/pj-htc-touch-pro" rel="nofollow">PJ: HTC Touch Pro</a></em></abbr> Best of luck for your exams!! I know the pain of that time… you’re so sweet to be giving your birthday wishes to your friend!! It’s always nice to see that people still care greatly for each other :)
It’s the naps that kills your night if you’re trying to sleep at night… but I hope your pattern will be back to normal soon!

Check out Destiny’s latest blog post » PJ: HTC Touch Pro

]]> By: Aisyah http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/daily-life/some-people-wait-a-lifetime/#comment-65046 Aisyah Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:35:10 +0000 http://www.teddy-o-ted.com/?p=3423#comment-65046 hey Teddy, I know what you mean about that whole confrontation thing. Sometimes I just couldnt help being frozen especially when I know what's coming(bad consequences). But it's the other way around when I know where I stand, or whether I am not at fault. I can talk, or argue with that person without no fear (except if he's a stranger and he looks like someone who'd kill) but sometimes I wish I could zip my mouth a bit cause I think I talk too much, and I always say the wrong things <abbr><em>Check out Aisyah’s latest blog post » <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/aisyahrozi/~3/m0NB4PBjqsg/" rel="nofollow">My mom told me that I’ve gotten fat</a></em></abbr> hey Teddy,
I know what you mean about that whole confrontation thing. Sometimes I just couldnt help being frozen especially when I know what’s coming(bad consequences). But it’s the other way around when I know where I stand, or whether I am not at fault. I can talk, or argue with that person without no fear (except if he’s a stranger and he looks like someone who’d kill)

but sometimes I wish I could zip my mouth a bit cause I think I talk too much, and I always say the wrong things

Check out Aisyah’s latest blog post » My mom told me that I’ve gotten fat

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